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Blog EntryJul 4, '08 7:22 AM
for everyone

There is a time and a season for everything.

And now is the time for forgiving and healing.

I had known this vital information about chikatime for some time now. It was given to me - and I say "given" because it was really a gift from a reader/ believer ("ridge") who made it clear that I had the freedom to do whatever I chose with it. I was faced with a situation of propriety and decency: should I keep it to myself? Or should I publish chikatime's identities and photos at the speed of a click, but at the cost of destroying them and becoming the very person I was so against? It was like choosing between the red pill and the blue pill - so I chose the pink pill! It’s cuter and more ghey anyway;)

I believe that there is always a better, greater way to go about our choices, so I chose to go with my heart and to have faith in the power of peace, love (and shopping).

I am happy that chikatime issued their apology. There is hope in the world yet. I also hope that this will also be a "new chapter" where people will find more entertainment in positive things, and not dirt, slander or lies about other people who have no way of defending themselves. That is so ten seasons, ten galaxies ago.

And if this breed of hate gossip just reincarnates in another place, then at least we now know that there IS a way to fight it, and it is not with more hate, or bad vibes, or revenge, it is to counteract it with faith, good vibes, and positivity.

Now it is time to get back to our regular scheduled program.

Mabuhay!

*photo credit: photography tom epperson
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wottie wrote on Jul 4, '08
I really admire your optimism :D
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juaniii wrote on Jul 4, '08
mabuhay!
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creativealvin wrote on Jul 4, '08
very magnanimous of you, Jenni. Not a lot of people would have done what you did.

Now, if more people were like you, then we'd have a peaceful but happy world :)
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b00giegirl wrote on Jul 4, '08
nice miss jenni! that only proves that you are a bigger person that the rest of them!
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justin021291 wrote on Jul 4, '08
you are so nice :D
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rawkchiq wrote on Jul 4, '08
Yeah, baby. :)
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alexamarch wrote on Jul 4, '08, edited on Jul 4, '08
This act is worth emulating and virtuous! We're proud of you Ms. Jenni Epperson
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looneybin wrote on Jul 4, '08
grabe ka! mas marami ka pang "hits" kaysa kay David Diaz!
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tinkerbellislove wrote on Jul 4, '08
Yeay! :D
*hug*
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mahlowsh wrote on Jul 4, '08
i wish i was as forgiving as you are. if i were in your shoes, i would have made it known in the whole world who these people are... but that was really a good move jenni. violence begets violence. and you stopped the cycle. cheerios!
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billkill wrote on Jul 4, '08
Jenni for hmmm Mayor muna! GOW!
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hotshits wrote on Jul 4, '08
i must say...you go rapunzel! haha ;)
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sweetjenni wrote on Jul 4, '08
You proved that youre a better person that them...an educated person...we love you ms. jen (kookiberks wave)**** =)
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mabuhaygirl wrote on Jul 4, '08
sweetjenni said
(kookiberks wave)****
*waves*
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mcdreamer wrote on Jul 4, '08
it really feels good to be the "bigger person"...
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bianx0202 wrote on Jul 4, '08
i admire you for your optimism and it just proves that you are better than them in a way that you wont stoop down to their level :) and besides they are just jealous of what and who you are :)
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outthewindow wrote on Jul 5, '08
now that is class =) at maganda pa ang buhok mo!
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mabuhaygirl wrote on Jul 5, '08
outthewindow said
=) at maganda pa ang buhok mo!
jenni-tals rock! lol
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bonsaichick wrote on Jul 5, '08
you lent me one of your shu uemura lipsticks during one of the makeover episodes of good finds. i was so scared you might confront me cos my officemate broke it (i swear it wasn't me!) but you didn't. you really are a peaceful person. mabuhay. oh, and i'm sorry about that lipstick. =)

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mabuhaygirl wrote on Jul 5, '08
bonsaichick said
you lent me one of your shu uemura lipsticks during one of the makeover episodes of good finds. i was so scared you might confront me cos my officemate broke it (i swear it wasn't me!) but you didn't. you really are a peaceful person. mabuhay. oh, and i'm sorry about that lipstick. =)
i remember!

gosh, it was only a lipstick. if it was my nail, i'd be pissed. kidding;)
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meij wrote on Jul 5, '08
wow... pink pill! you just gave me the answer to a dilemma..but I have to say I AM still very much intrigued!
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mp3musicmp3 wrote on Jul 5, '08, edited on Jul 5, '08


Ego conflicts could rock one's frame of mind and soul, though one may not take part in it literally. When our ego's get hurt and frailed we go into a pattern of unchecked self-absorption and destruction. In the process, we hurt ourselves more than those we wish to crush.



I so admire people like Jen who have great mastery over their ego's and actions. That to me, is the strongest and most fit to survive. For really, there is not a foe nor monster more dangerous and insurmountable than ourselves.
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mitz321 wrote on Jul 6, '08
Causing harm to another or revenge is not the answer. Truth will be revealed. There is a God!!! har har har. Thank you, Lord. =D
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issh wrote on Jul 6, '08
kudos to you for being the better person! guess they can dish it out but can't take it.
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